ISFJs – Do’s and Dont’s

isfjwallflower:

A guide of what to and what not to say/do to your ISFJ.

DO:
•Encourage them
•Ask them about day
•Talk about your concerns
•Talk about pretty much anything
•Help them
•Listen to their concerns
•Encourage and help them adjust to change
•Support them
•Say thank you
•Invite them to things
•Consider what’s important to them
•Ask them if they’re comfortable with things
•Be honest, even if they could be hurt
•Make time for them
•Respect them

DON’T:
•Embarrass them
•Make them do things they don’t want in front of people or not in front of people
•Force them to do something they’re uncomfortable with
•Ignore their concerns/feelings
•Lie to them about how you feel
•Treat them or their concerns as inconvenient
•Be their friend if you don’t want to be
•Make them feel stupid
•Yell at them
•Guilt trip them