Look, Just…. don’t be afraid to talk to people- they’re just people. But don’t dump all your problems on someone who hasn’t specifically said they’re happy to listen to anything you have to say. Please? It’s stressful.
jfc yes, please don’t do this. I’ve been in chats where we’re all just casually talking and having a good time then suddenly someone we barely know will just start dumping their really traumatic experiences on us.
Listen: I can understand wanting to talk to someone about your feelings and problems. But realize that not everybody is equipped to be your support system, especially if we have our own issues to sort through. If you need someone to talk to, it’s best to seek professional help, or at the very least seek out an online space that is dedicated to the problems you’re experiencing. It can be genuinely stressful, emotionally draining, and frankly kind of rude to just walk into a conversation and shift the focus to All About You.
Doesn’t mean you need to stay silent about your feelings and never talk to anyone, but there needs to be a balance between keeping it all bottled up and unleashing it all at once on unsuspecting persons.
Yes. ;w; Same here…
Hot cocoa haven 